Dear John/分手信

Actually I do not like this story. The story was about a girl who was in deep love with a boy. However, in order to aid (or some other reasons) another guy, she married the guy. Finally, the guy died of cancer, and the girl lived with the boy again together.

--This kind of story sucks. The girl's choice almost ruined everyone involved. She might want to help others, or to gratitude, yet, she confused the feeling of assistance and love, and it turned out almost all of the relations were proved to be mess, and people around her failed to live a happy life. The boy loving her was so sad and extended his army service to choose suffer in battlefields than to go back home; and the man marrying her was sad too because he knew she did not love him.

Although there was a happy-ending, we all knew it was really impossible. Realistically, we all knew when the girl made the choice to marry the guy, the tragic ending was doomed. What if the boy die in some battle, what if her husband did not have any lethal disease, and what if she did not meet with her beloved boy, ..., then the three may be sad or guilty in the rest of their lives, then why the choice?

实际上我不太喜欢这个故事。这个故事讲的是一个女孩，本来深深地爱着一个男孩，但是为了帮助某个男人（或者什么其他原因），嫁给了另外那个男的。最后男的得了癌症去世，又和自己喜欢的男孩在一起了。

――这种故事太糟糕，这姑娘的选择差不多毁掉了身边所有人的生活。她也许想帮助别人，也许想报恩，但是她把帮助别人的感情和爱情混淆在了一起，结局就是所有的感情处理得都不好，周围的人其实过得都不好。爱他的男孩很伤心，延长了自己的服役期，宁愿在战场上吃苦也不愿意回国；而跟他结婚的男人也很难过，因为他知道她爱的不是他。

虽然影片最后还是大团圆结局，但是这真的太难了，现实一点说，其实我们都知道，当那个姑娘做出这样的选择的时候，注定了是个悲剧的结局。假如男孩战死在沙场，假如她的丈夫没有绝症，假如她后来没有碰到她心爱的男孩，……，那么他们三个人可能都要在难过或内疚中度过余生，这又何苦呢？

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Director: Lasse Hallström
Stars: Channing Tatum, Amanda Seyfried, Richard Jenkins